How I Saved My Marriage

I’ll assume if you are reading this, you already know or suspect that you really do want to save your marriage. Maybe you have kids. Maybe you remember how it used to be. Maybe you realize that moving from one household to two permanently would be both emotionally and financially devastating. Whatever the reason, it […]

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I now had to accept that this was a bad situation that I couldn’t make any decent change with my current desperate plan. Because I was essentially out of options, oh so tired and needing some TLC (which I wasn’t going to get from him), I decided to go back to my hometown (several states […]

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I tried to busy myself and continue moving forward. I just wanted to keep my positive momentum going. I was determined to read books that made me happy, dust off my old classic albums that only I enjoyed and just take some alone time to sort things out. Well, guess what? My husband called me […]

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Several days went by that nothing whatsoever happened between us. No calls, emails, or texts. Then, two days before our friends were coming in, he called, hemmed and hahed for several minutes, and finally asked could he join us? He wanted to go out with all three of us. I was stunned, but of course, […]

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So, how did this end? About six months after this process my husband showed up and said he had the divorce papers. My knees buckled. But, after shifting his legs about a million times, he looked me right in the eyes and said “I think we should throw them away?” (He later told me he […]

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