How I Saved My Marriage

I explained that I’d taken some time back home and was just trying to improve and enjoy myself during what could be a difficult time. I mentioned the stack of albums I’d dusted off and that I was meeting up with old friends of ours who were coming up next week, and how good it had been to see them. There was dead silence on the other end of the phone. Then, a colder tone replaced the earlier one, and my husband (or ex, I should say) excused himself.

I wasn’t sure what to make of this. He didn’t like it when I pursued him, but now he didn’t seem to like that I wasn’t. I grabbed the book to see if I was doing something wrong, but according to it, I was sort of on the right track, although my method and my tone were not as lighthearted, matter-of-fact, or open as the book said I should be. I remembered the road map and figured I should maybe take a look at exactly what I should be doing. I read it again several times and put the plan in the back of my mind.

I also got my hands on another book called  “The Magic Of Making Up,” which is all about coming up with makeup strategies when your partner is resistant or the breakup has already happened. It sort of teaches you how to turn the tables, get on “their side” as part of a strategy, and level the playing field. I was stunned to see that my trip/indifference was actually right on. It was dumb luck, but according to the author, I was right on track.

Unfortunately, this system (The Magic of Making Up) doesn’t appear to be available anymore, so I searched and listened to readers, and therefore found what I believe is the closest, most similar guidance.  It is called “His Secret Obsession,” and it also flips the switch on a husband.  If you put in some effort to take in the information, you will come out with a completely different understanding of what you’ve been doing wrong in trying to make your husband want you and how you can efficiently turn it around.  This book and course are very good at explaining what turns a husband (or any ex, really) from indifferent and cold to quite motivated and pursuing. And believe me, the latter feels a whole lot better. He also offers a free ebook you can get here if you want to see how he teaches. You don’t need to provide anything. It is available for immediate download with no email required.

But back to my story –  (probably incorrectly) I decided that I was tired of playing games and told myself I’d put this whole thing off till after the visit with my friends. I’d decide then what I wanted to do. I just couldn’t deal with it earlier than that. Next up, Part Four (The Pursuer Becomes Pursued) Here.

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